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13 Things Guys Do But Are Embarrassed To Admit [Dude's List]
It’s no secret we all omit some of the grittier and less pleasant details of ourselves. Nobody wants to let it be known on a first date about their flossing rituals or what exactly their browser history looked like last night (before he erased it, of course).
12 Ways to Make the Relationship Work [Dude's List]
I’ve been told, and have said in kind, don’t sweat the bad times because they can’t last forever but don’t enjoy the good times because they can’t last forever, either. So what are the ways you can ensure the best times are the best they can be and make the bad times as bearable as possible?

Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]
I feel like if a guy is telling me he’s not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he’s “not that into it” instead of telling myself he’s just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.
Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]
Why is asking to talk to a guy a big deal? Recently I texted my FWB that I wanted to talk to him, and asked if he had a minute later on in the day. He immediately shot back, “What’s it about? Am I in trouble?”
12 Topics To Talk About on a First Date [Dude's List]
First dates can be tricky territory. It’s pretty obvious the things that you SHOULDN’T talk about. In fact, some time back I even wrote a Dude’s List about some of them. Prison records, the Ex-Files, and childhood trauma all made that list. The question’s remained unanswered: what’s safe terrain to cover?
Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]
I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don’t want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, “JK, you’re too young for me” in another month.
14 Movies That Make Men Cry [Dude's List]
The power of the moving image can evoke a profound emotional reaction from any person, man or woman. However, sometimes there are certain common denominator to the kind of moving images that make men cry.

Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]
He insisted he still didn’t find her attractive, and wasn’t really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.
When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]
Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded “gray area”. It’s where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on “what we are”.
The 13 Worst Movies to Watch on a Date [Dude's List]
A great movie sharing experience can enhance a date, provide it with chitchat fuel but also set the tone for the rest of the evening, assuming there will be a rest of the evening. In all the ways the right movie can help, the wrong movie can decimate.
What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]
I’m pretty secure with my body, but I know there are some areas I could use to tone up. (Shout out to my Kardashian butt!) When I have sex, it’s pretty inevitable that my less-firm parts take center stage and I’m worried it’s a turn off to guys.
How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]
I’ve been out on first dates with guys who barely go in for a kiss at the end of the night, and others who can’t seem to get my clothes off fast enough.
The 14 Best Movies to Watch On a Date [Dude's List]
This is as varied and specific a list as it gets. Some people find the Aliens saga extremely romantic while others tend to be suckers for a cliché tearjerker like The Notebook. It’s a difficult decision oftentimes, finding that right balance of romance, sex appeal, tension and craft.
Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]
Dating is a dance and texting is a brand new routine. You modify some old moves but you’re also creating new ones. The results are mostly the same and based on the same fundamentals, timing and rhythm included. But while the benefits are great, the burns are more severe.
11 Things Men Don’t Know About Women [Dude's List]
And we’ve reached THIS Dude’s List. Yes, we men are ignorant of many things about women. I cannot imagine how many times all of the ladies have face-palmed asking to themselves silently or shouting “WHY DOESN’T HE GET IT?”
Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]
Why do guys send pictures of their dicks? It’s not like I’ve asked for this. It’s not like I WANT to see him with his jeans around his ankles and his business in his hand. I know men have extremely fragile egos and I don’t want to hurt feelings, but come on.