guy’s point of view - page 4

Mar 16, 2014

5 Fast Steps to Dating More Responsibly

You want loyalty, honesty, commitment and faithfulness. You want to be respected. You want to be loved. You want your effort to be reciprocated.

Mar 10, 2014

How Do I Get Him To Get Off the Couch? [Ask A Dude]

I'm tired of being the only one to take care of things in the home and in life and I'm tired of being a nagging Nancy. I don't want to be a nag but I don't know how else to get through to him.

Mar 3, 2014

Is He Too Old For Me? [Ask A Dude]

Our compatibility is undeniable, but I feel like he's the one who doesn't want to date an 18 year-old. I want to show him that I don't have the mindset of a teenager and want something more from our relationship. Also, how can I do that? Go from being friends to a relationship?

I Wasn't His "Real" Girlfriend? [Ask A Dude]

When I finally told him I was into him and wanted more he said he had a girlfriend and things were "real" with her. Things weren't that real with his girl when we were having crazy pool sex the weekend before so what gives?

Feb 24, 2014

11 Ways To Ask Someone To Move Out [Dude’s List]

There’s no good way to tell someone to move out. And how do you get the other person to take...

Feb 21, 2014

I'm in Love With An Addict And I Don't Want Him To Break Up With Me. Help! [Ask A Dude]

Then slowly but surely a past drug addiction of his crept into our life as he started to spiral out of control. Being the person I am, I stayed with him. It was hard, and I got my feelings hurt a lot.

Feb 17, 2014

Feb 10, 2014

I Thought I Met A Good Guy But… [Ask A Dude]

He was a real gentleman and told me adamantly that he wanted to get to know me rather than take me home that night, so he'd text me in the morning. It's been three days now and I've heard nothing yet.

Feb 7, 2014

18 of the Most BS Lines To Break Up With [Dude's List]

In general, it’s not always about the fact you’re breaking up but about HOW you break up with them. There’s the honest to goodness truth and then there’s the BS he/she will give you to make themselves feel like the good guy in the situation.

Jan 28, 2014

So You're "On a Break" With Your Boyfriend. What are the Rules?

Two of the most important ways to survive the break is to establish what the rules of the break will be (before you ACTUALLY take the break), and to respect those rules. This makes us ask: what are the rules?

Jan 27, 2014

I Fell In Love Then I Cheated, Do I Need To Tell Him? [Ask A Dude]

Let’s clear the air: you’ve now cheated on your bf twice with a guy you work with on campus and you want to know how to get back to just being friends with the one and wondering whether you should confess to your bf. That about sum it up?

Jan 24, 2014

15 Movies He'll Definitely Want To See In 2014 [Dude's List]

Here are 15 films in 2014 you’re going to find your boy (and probably yourself) breaking your wallet to see…

Jan 21, 2014

How To Survive A "Break"

Without a doubt, this is the most critical time for what you two have and could have. So here are some general guidelines and helpful tips to make sure you get the answer that’s clearest, sanest, and right for you.

Jan 20, 2014

Did I Come Off Too Crazy? [Ask A Dude]

I got a little clingy and insecure, and I think that freaked him out. I was upset, and I texted him a few things that probably made me sound absolutely crazy. The thing is, after that day everything changed. He decided he no longer wanted a relationship.

Jan 13, 2014

Can I Get His Mind Off Another Girl? [Ask A Dude]

You’re both people, so treat each other as such. Be yourself. He wants to keep seeing you because he likes you. How much and for what reasons are up to him, but you got this far because of who you are -- not because of who you think you want him to be.

Jan 10, 2014

12 Creative Ways To Wait Out the Snow-Pocalypse

You know what all this below freezing temperatures don’t encourage? Going and out and doing a damn thing. So here are a few ideas of what you can do to heat up inside while the outside freezes.