• Why Can’t Guys Admit They Like Spooning? [Ask A Dude]

    Why Can’t Guys Admit They Like Spooning? [Ask A Dude]

    Never have I encountered a guy who threw his hands up and told me to get away when I went in for a cuddle sesh, and I’ve even woken up in the middle of the night not a few time to find that my bedmate wound himself around me all on his own.

  • Why Is My Boyfriend Treating Our Relationship As Though It’s a Chore? [Ask A Dude]

    Why Is My Boyfriend Treating Our Relationship As Though It’s a Chore? [Ask A Dude]

    Since a couple months ago, however, I’ve noted that my boyfriend has started to view our relationship as a sentence that he’s locked into. When I tell him one of my friends is having a birthday dinner, he drags his feet and makes up excuses as to why he can’t make it.

  • What Should All Women Know About Men? [Ask A Dude]

    What Should All Women Know About Men? [Ask A Dude]

    With women there are a few rules of thumb that generally hold true — “I’m not jealous” means we’re definitely at least a little jealous; nothing comes between us, our extra-comfy pajamas and our favorite TV show; we will always stop to pet a cute puppy. What would you say are some universal truths for men?

  • Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]

    Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]

    I feel like if a guy is telling me he’s not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he’s “not that into it” instead of telling myself he’s just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.

  • Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]

    Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]

    Why is asking to talk to a guy a big deal? Recently I texted my FWB that I wanted to talk to him, and asked if he had a minute later on in the day. He immediately shot back, “What’s it about? Am I in trouble?”

  • Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]

    Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]

    I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don’t want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, “JK, you’re too young for me” in another month.

  • How Do I Get Him To Go From FWB To BF? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Get Him To Go From FWB To BF? [Ask A Dude]

    I’m 23 years old and have known this guy for about 4 years. I’m pretty sure he was into me for a while, but I only recently started to like him. Figures, now he doesn’t feel that way about me anymore. What I do know is that he’s sexually attracted to me. Besides that, we’re still good friends.

  • Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]

    Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]

    He insisted he still didn’t find her attractive, and wasn’t really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.

  • When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]

    When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]

    Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded “gray area”. It’s where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on “what we are”.

  • What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]

    What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]

    I’m pretty secure with my body, but I know there are some areas I could use to tone up. (Shout out to my Kardashian butt!) When I have sex, it’s pretty inevitable that my less-firm parts take center stage and I’m worried it’s a turn off to guys.

  • How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]

    How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]

    I’ve been out on first dates with guys who barely go in for a kiss at the end of the night, and others who can’t seem to get my clothes off fast enough.

  • What’re the Morning After Rules for a FWB? [Ask A Dude]

    What’re the Morning After Rules for a FWB? [Ask A Dude]

    Hey Dude!
    I have a question about proper morning-after protocol. After spending the night with…

  • Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]

    Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]

    Dating is a dance and texting is a brand new routine. You modify some old moves but you’re also creating new ones. The results are mostly the same and based on the same fundamentals, timing and rhythm included. But while the benefits are great, the burns are more severe.

  • Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]

    Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]

    Why do guys send pictures of their dicks? It’s not like I’ve asked for this. It’s not like I WANT to see him with his jeans around his ankles and his business in his hand. I know men have extremely fragile egos and I don’t want to hurt feelings, but come on.

  • How Do I Tell My Friend Her BF Might Be Gay? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Tell My Friend Her BF Might Be Gay? [Ask A Dude]

    Aside from being extremely flamboyant and touchy-feely with other men, she mentioned to me when she was drunk one night that they haven’t had sex in almost a year. I’m not really sure what I’m allowed to say in a scenario like this, and I have no evidence aside from my strong suspicions.

  • Should I Tell Him How Many Guys I’ve Slept With? [Ask A Dude]

    Should I Tell Him How Many Guys I’ve Slept With? [Ask A Dude]

    I started dating someone new, but we haven’t slept together yet. He’s hinted at wanting to know how many people I’ve been with before we do the deed, but that’s not something I really discuss with my partners.