• “Does He Really Want To Just Be Friends?” [Ask A Dude]

    One time he slept over after he got drunk at a party, but nothing happened except some cuddling and spooning, though he said that he'd loved to kiss me if he hadn't thrown up.

  • “Is My Tinder Romance Over?” [Ask A Dude]

    I texted him that day that I had a perfect night (mistake #1) but didn't hear back from him. After a day, he texted me back that he found my panties in his room, but I figured he would only text me that if he wanted to see me again, right?!

  • “Is He Too Young or Just An Ass?” [Ask A Dude]

    First of all I'd like to point out that I already know I'm in very dangerous territory, given this guy is two years younger than me, and I'm mainly writing in to confirm my worst suspicions but I am desperate for one final opinion...

  • Why Do Cute Guys Disappear? [Ask A Dude]

    He said he was going away for the weekend to his family's place but looked forward to seeing me in our orientation seminar next week. He has yet to ask me for my number...

  • He Had a Faux-Fair, Will He Do It Again? [Ask A Dude]

    I've been with my man for about 3 months. Things have been great, we just had the happiest week together...until I found out he was cheating through text message. He was sending two other girls inappropriate text messages, just one or two times.

  • “Why Won’t He Tell These Other Girls That He’s Taken?” [Ask A Dude]

    When I get texts from any man other than for business reasons, that's the first thing I say -- I have a great boyfriend and am committed to our relationship.

  • How Do I Get Him To Get Off the Couch? [Ask A Dude]

    I'm tired of being the only one to take care of things in the home and in life and I'm tired of being a nagging Nancy. I don't want to be a nag but I don't know how else to get through to him.

  • Is He Too Old For Me? [Ask A Dude]

    Our compatibility is undeniable, but I feel like he's the one who doesn't want to date an 18 year-old. I want to show him that I don't have the mindset of a teenager and want something more from our relationship. Also, how can I do that? Go from being friends to a relationship?

  • I Wasn’t His “Real” Girlfriend? [Ask A Dude]

    When I finally told him I was into him and wanted more he said he had a girlfriend and things were "real" with her. Things weren't that real with his girl when we were having crazy pool sex the weekend before so what gives?

  • I’m in Love With An Addict And I Don’t Want Him To Break Up With Me. Help! [Ask A Dude]

    Then slowly but surely a past drug addiction of his crept into our life as he started to spiral out of control. Being the person I am, I stayed with him. It was hard, and I got my feelings hurt a lot.

  • I Thought I Met A Good Guy But… [Ask A Dude]

    He was a real gentleman and told me adamantly that he wanted to get to know me rather than take me home that night, so he'd text me in the morning. It's been three days now and I've heard nothing yet.

  • How Do I Ask Him If He Gave Me An STD? [Ask A Dude]

    I've had a very sexual past and every time I've had sex up until recently, I've been tested and I've "been safe" -- meaning I used a condom. The last time I had sex was unprotected. We started out using a condom, but then it ended up being unprotected because I felt comfortable with the guy.

  • I Fell In Love Then I Cheated, Do I Need To Tell Him? [Ask A Dude]

    Let’s clear the air: you’ve now cheated on your bf twice with a guy you work with on campus and you want to know how to get back to just being friends with the one and wondering whether you should confess to your bf. That about sum it up?

  • Did I Come Off Too Crazy? [Ask A Dude]

    I got a little clingy and insecure, and I think that freaked him out. I was upset, and I texted him a few things that probably made me sound absolutely crazy. The thing is, after that day everything changed. He decided he no longer wanted a relationship.

  • Can I Get His Mind Off Another Girl? [Ask A Dude]

    You’re both people, so treat each other as such. Be yourself. He wants to keep seeing you because he likes you. How much and for what reasons are up to him, but you got this far because of who you are -- not because of who you think you want him to be.

  • Does My Weight Make Me A Freak? [Ask A Dude]

    I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend nor have I had sex (or gotten past 2nd base). I'm 5'8" and I weigh quite a bit. I'm a size 17 pants and x-large shirt (mainly due to my boobs). My friends that are guys and girls say I'm pretty, but I don't feel it.

  • Did We Have Sex Too Soon? [Ask A Dude]

    Sunday night, he invited me over again. No awesome date plans were mentioned, and he didn't seem as into me as before. Did I stumble on a rude jerk who's going to forget about dating me because we had sex too soon, or am I just misjudging the situation?

  • Should I Go For My Fireman Roommate? [Ask A Dude]

    So I have a very attractive firefighter as a roommate. We just started living together (before a month ago we never knew each other). He's 30 years old, has never lived with a girl, has never been married and is talking to his ex he's known for years. I have a boyfriend he knows of, too and I'm 22.

  • I Can’t This Guy Off My Mind, Will We Hook Back Up? [Ask A Dude]

    Tbh, I'm one of the most wanted girls on campus. Many guys ask me out and my name is known by literally most of the guys in school, but I just don't like any of them. The only guy who doesn’t want me seems to be him. I only want him... Do you think he will ever get back to me?

  • I’ve Never Been Kissed, What Now? [Ask A Dude]

    I'm 17 and I have never kissed or dated a guy. I'm kind of awkward with boys and I'm afraid that if I date one he'll make fun of me for not being experienced enough, so whenever a guy is a little bit interested in me I turn him down.

  • Does He Really Want To Marry Me? [Ask A Dude]

    He asked me to marry him on our one year anniversary I said yes but when someone asked us about it he denied that’s what the ring was for. Now he says he does want to marry me but hates if I say anything about it...it’s been a long time, do I wait longer?

  • Is He Still Worth The Effort Or Should I Move On? [Ask A Dude]

    I'm always initiating our hangouts AND I'm still unsure about whether he's into me or not. I know he is a shy guy but we've been stuck at the same place for way too long.

  • Is He Interested Or Am I Just In His Way? [Ask A Dude]

    So there is a guy in my history class and he's always staring at me or glancing at me when I speak. One time we had a proper full-on conversation, but now he just stares at me and smiles a lot sometimes.

  • How Do You Know You’re In The Friend Zone? [Ask A Dude]

    It got to the point where his mate asked my best friend if we were hooking up because we were talking so much (which we weren't). However, he has not tried anything at all (no kiss - nothing, zilch).

  • How Do I Get Him To Make A Move? [Ask A Dude]

    So I've been friends with this guy since my childhood, but lately it seems as if we've become closer. Now that we've grown up I feel that our friendship could develop into something really great.