dating advice

10 Signs You’re Definitely, Maybe In Love
Something I have always wondered for my entire adolescence is how the heck do you know when you’re in love? How do you distinguish between “puppy love” or lust or real, full blown committed love? What are the differences? What are the key ingredients that make two people fall madly in love with one another?
Here’s What Guys REALLY Want in a Girlfriend
Stop asking him if you look fat in a certain outfit, or if you need to do more squats. He obviously is already attracted to you, and constantly second-guessing your appearance is going to take a toll on his perception.

Should You Make a Move on Your BFF?
At one point or another, I think every single person in the world has had a crush on their best guy/girl friend. There is always that lingering thought in the back of our heads that says, “Maybe this person would be better as more than a friend…” And sometimes, we listen to that thought.
7 Things You Never Say to a Post-Breakup Buddy
No one is perfect. Sometimes, things slip out that end up making things worse. To help prevent these instances, we’ve compiled a list of the seven things you should never say to a friend that is going through a breakup.
12 Topics To Talk About on a First Date [Dude's List]
First dates can be tricky territory. It’s pretty obvious the things that you SHOULDN’T talk about. In fact, some time back I even wrote a Dude’s List about some of them. Prison records, the Ex-Files, and childhood trauma all made that list. The question’s remained unanswered: what’s safe terrain to cover?
The 5 WORST Reasons to Reject a Guy
Being picky about a guy is a universal right for girls. But there are certain things that we can afford to overlook, like what he wears.
It’s Time to Finally Talk to Your Crush!
I remember a time back when I was a Freshman in college, every single class I had was a huge lecture hall. There is so much time to just daydream and people watch. I would scan the room, looking at every person’s face to see if I knew anyone, but mostly looking for hot dudes.

On Looking For Love and Loving Yourself [Dear DBN]
When looking for love, there are few things more frustrating than near radio silence. This week, ease off on the search and love what you have: yourself.
Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]
He insisted he still didn’t find her attractive, and wasn’t really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.
All “Types” Have MY Vote [Diary of the Undateable]
I’ve always been warned to stay away from different kinds of guys – the ones that lie, the ones that steal, the ones that cheat, the ones that can’t commit. Guys from the “wrong” side of town…thugs. Guys that are from the “right” side of town…snobs. Football players. Frat boys. Writers. Readers. Artists. Fashionistos. And now? Politicians.
On How Awareness Can Save You From Sadness [Dear DBN]
Whether someone’s walking all over you, or you’re just walking all over yourself, it’s important to know how to pull it together and fight the demons. This week, how awareness can save you from sadness.
RIP Dear Abby!! Here’s Her All-Time Best Advice…
Admit it. We have all read her column one time or another, and have loved it. Her words of wisdom were timeless and probably are more relevant today than ever before! So here’s a tribute to you dear Abby – a collection of your finest quotes to help us all be better people!
On Greener Grass and Instant Chemistry [Dear DBN]
The great philosophers of The Clash once asked, “Should I stay or should I go?” Isn’t that always the question? This week we tackle if you should keep looking and when it’s time to just move on.
Think Like a Dude With These 6 Dating Rules
From not harping on the fact that they didn’t get to the gym that day, to avoiding that cliched female downfall of over-analyzation, men seem to have it so much easier when it comes to finding someone. So why not start dating like them?
On Backing Down and Backing Off Gracefully [Dear DBN]
Are you entangled? Irritated? Frustrated with unrequited love? This week, just back off and let it go because these knights in shining armor are just tools in costume.
On Making Up and Moving On [Dear DBN]
Mistakes and mishaps riddle our lives and their ability to haunt us is only amplified by our own inability to forgive them. You can grieve being made a fool, or you can accept it and get on with your life. This week, when to forgo the pity-party and move on.