All “Types” Have MY Vote [Diary of the Undateable]
I’ve always been warned to stay away from different kinds of guys – the ones that lie, the ones that steal, the ones that cheat, the ones that can’t commit. Guys from the “wrong” side of town…thugs. Guys that are from the “right” side of town…snobs. Football players. Frat boys. Writers. Readers. Artists. Fashionistos. And now? Politicians.
Stuck in a Dating Desert [Diary of the Undateable]
Where do I find a man? No seriously, where? Some say it’s as simple as stepping outside. My favorite mags and blogs always say that eligible bachelors are everywhere – class, campus, coffeehouses, clubs, church, the mall, the library…you name it. And I don’t know.

Can You Turn Your FWB Into a Serious Relationship?
Can pigs fly? Can you fit into the same jeans you wore in middle school? Can FWB situations turn into a serious relationship?
Dating Within Your Major: A Recipe for Success? [Diary of the Undateable]
My fellow aspiring journalista friends and I often complain that guys outside of our college, the School of Communications, simply don’t understand what we do. They think it’s frivolous.
What Is Dating Today?
It’s getting increasingly harder to decipher what dating is. There’s “having a thing” with someone. There’s “talking to someone”. There’s the ever confusing “friends with benefits”…
So What IS Closure, Exactly? [Diary of the Undateable]
I ended up texting him the last week of December with a simple but to-the-point message that said “you should probablyyy ask me to hang out soon.” I thought that I was thinking like a man. But I was actually thinking like an idiot. Carlos promised that he’d hit me up within the next few days – and I haven’t heard from him since.
Being Single’s Not So Bad [Diary of the Undateable]
Around this time of year, I think that single girls band together and unite in our single girly-ness. Not going to front – I did a little bit of hating and shading yesterday. But there was also comfort in the fact that I wasn’t alone in being alone.

Around the Web

5 Signs He’s Cheating On You
It’s not healthy to obsess over that kind of thing, and it’ll just make both of you upset. But if you’re feeling a little suspicious, there’s usually a good reason. Instead of picking up on every little thing, or always having concerns in the back of your mind, it’s better to just relax and keep an eye out for these 5 red flags…
Frontin’ For His Friends and Followers [Diary of the Undateable]
One of my fav songs from 2003 is “Frontin’” by Pharrell. Not just because he looked totally hot in the video or because Jay-Z spit a few bars on the track…but because they break down the thought process of a guy who likes to pretend in front of his friends.
Bang With Friends App Lets You Get Laid Via Facebook
Chivalry, in this case, is unfortunately dead, my friends. According to the Daily Beast, the app was created to improve upon the way online dating sites operate. One creator said, “It would be great, as guys, if you could find out which girls are into you and not dance around anything.”
On the Things We Do (And Shouldn’t Do) To Find Love [Dear DBN]
In the pursuit of love, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the pursuit rather than the love. This week, when to pursue and when to let them come to you.
Single Girl Myths Debunked, Vol. I [Diary of the Undateable]
Last Friday, I got drunk. There’s no cute, flowery way of putting it. I had finished my first week of senior year and was already buried in piles of articles and assignments. And I was exhausted.

“Sex and the City” is Ruining My Relationships [Diary of the Undateable]
Yes, I love SATC. A little too much. So much that it’s affected the way that I think about my own off-camera relationships. I’ve saturated my brain with so much SATC that the line between fact and fiction is as thin as one of Carrie’s gauzy Chloé blouses.